It has been just over 4 weeks since we departed on our journey from Vancouver, BC and made our way down to Baja, Mexico. We left the safety of our downtown condo, secure 9-5 jobs, our friends, family, and our fairly normal North American lives. In a mere 4 weeks, our lives have drastically changed in every possible way – and we’re loving every minute of it. You may wonder what life on the road has taught us. Here’s the scoop.
We live in the present. This is a massive change for us! We usually plan what we are going to do at most 2 days ahead of time. Back home Ash had a very organized agenda which would normally always be filled up with meetings, events, plans, etc. at least a month in advance. Our weekends were completely booked up, and we always lived in the future. We lived for the weekends, long weekends and holidays. During our time on the road so far, we have put the past behind us, the future in front of us, and savour every moment of the day.
The sunrise and sunset. When you live out of a vehicle you are exposed to the elements of the natural world – the bad and the good (hence why we slept on a couch in a random building of an RV Park in a wind storm, but that is another story). Being on the road has made us so much more aware and appreciative of the sunrise and sunset each day. They also helped regulate our body clocks as we happily left our alarm clocks in a box deep in Ash’s parents’ basement.
Our lives are much simpler. Since all of the stuff we need to survive has to fit in the back of our 1990 Toyota Pickup Truck, we really had to whittle down what we were going to take with us. We have the essentials, nothing more. We have survived without most of the stuff that was in our condo and have probably forgotten about most of it already. Our current life priorities are also very simple: find a place to camp, find wifi every so often, find a hot shower, make food, buy food, set up camp, break camp… you get the idea. We are living with less stuff, but are much happier without it!
Strangers are friends we haven’t met yet. We have been so lucky to have met some amazing and generous people during our journey so far. Our own adventure has connected us with people that we would not have normally run into. Being in Mexico for just over a week, we are charmed by the Mexican people. They always have a friendly smile and/or wave, and love to chat (despite our broken Spanish) all about the tent, the local food and area, and traveling in general. While we’re cruising in the Toyota, we can’t help but grin as we get thumbs up signs, peace signs, nods, and big smiles as we drive by. When we think back to life in Vancouver, we wish we said ‘good morning’ to people we saw on the street, or in the grocery store. Or given them thumbs up signs.
Showers/clean clothes feel like a special treat! We have learned that if there is a shower, use it. Use it as many times as you can, because you never know when your next one will be. Especially hot showers! As we make our way through Mexico we know the hot showers will soon be a thing of the past. Ash likes to let the water run just in case the hot appears miraculously (which sometimes it does). There is a little happy dance that is done, before jumping in and making sure to soap up (and rinse off!) as quickly as possible. You never know when that glorious hot water is going to end. Same thing goes for clean laundry. Burying our faces in our clean laundry and breathing deeply into the fresh scent of laundry soap and hot dryer is something we now relish.
You may think that these life principles only apply to those that are traveling, but the best part is that if you incorporate any one of these into your life (whether you are on the road or not), life might be a little bit brighter. We’re hoping we will remember these things when we are back at home, but most likely, our lives back home will never be the same because of them.
My fiancee Austin and I spend two months on the road last summer traveling almost 11,000 miles from Florida to the western USA. We were in an amazing place in our lives, no mortgage, no children, awesome parents that would watch our pets, and a decent little savings account to keep us going. I was accepted to grad school last February and knew the next two years of schooling would be filled with long nights and busy days, so we both decided to quit our jobs and hit the road. We had an incredibly, incredibly, incredibly amazing time on the road…spending our nights in the woods, eating over a campfire, hiking in some of the most majestic places we’ve ever been, meeting great people, and getting to know each other on a whole new level. We arrived back this past August, moved four hours north to Jacksonville for my schooling, rented a house…and settled down. We have a lot to be thankful for, but we both yearn for the road and the unknown. Little things bring us back to our trip and remind of us of our journey. Pictures line our walls, souvenirs from the road decorate our house, but the memories are the strongest. I didn’t think it’d be so hard coming back, but the longer we’re here, the more we’re ready to leave.
Looking at your photos and reading your blog makes my day and brings tears to my eyes. I’m excited to see where you’ll go and what experiences you’ll have. My only advice is to live it to the fullest!
I love this, you guys! Especially the part about letting the water run for a few minutes just in case… what a happy surprise when it turns HOT, right? Enjoy the Baja, see you somewhere south!
I love this post because you’re already finding out all of the vital things we discovered during our long term travel. Our lives at home during a 9-5 are so busy, so organized, so….not the life we want. We are working like crazy to get back on the road to, once again, live in the moment, taking each day as it comes, appreciating each sunrise and sunset as the earths way of letting us know another day has begun or ended. Now that we’ve learned these lessons, we try hard to apply the same and home and I gotta say, it’s tough! Good for you for hitting the road, enjoy Baja, and I am counting the days until I”ll be right out there with you!
Great travels so far!
My wife and I traveled New Zealand by camper van on our honeymoon and it was an incredible time and way too short. I envy the journey the two of you have started. And I’m planning (very early in the works) how we can begin our own travels around the (new to us) West coast and who know’s where from there!
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I travel approx 35-40K in Baja every year on the back roads for the last 10 years and all over Baja for the last 47 years. I have a huge network of friends both American and Mexican all over Baja…call me anytime for anything! I am currently stateside for the Thanksgiving holiday, but can roll south within 30 min…I’m close to the border! Enjoy Baja’s magic!
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So glad to read this and hope this inspires others to live and truly enjoy the important things in life. Safe travels!
I’m leaving tomorrow for La Paz with a stop over at a rancho just below the Tres Virgines Volcano.
Great Overland Adventure & wonderful Mexican people.
BTW it looks like you are running to much air pressure in your tires at the beach 🙂
Enjoy your changed life
Maybe we’ll run into you Karl! What are you driving?
Oh yeah, there usually is 40psi in the tires… :). We air down to about 18psi if we’re going to be off road for any length of time 😉
Hola Ashley and Richard
I love reading about your trip and sure understand about living in the moment….and leaving the tap running in hopes of a hot shower…hasn’t happened yet! I am over on the Yucatan in Merida and have been volunteering at a mission/ orphanage for mentally and physically challenged people. It has been an amazing experience and I am staying in a dormitory where the average age is 20, people from all over the world and some know 3 and 4 languages. Most are teaching English, a great group, living on a shoestring, but of course manage to find pesos for beer. I will be in Lo De Marco just North of Puerto Vallarta on December 4 until ? , so would love to see you if it all works out. Be safe, love Aunty Barbie
I’ve started to read your entire blog, and I’m amazed, you really inspired me!! I’m in the process to fix my truck (any recommendations for the bed, spaces, materials to be used, electric outlets..?) I am from Guatemala, Central America, currently I work from home, I’m a software engineer and my job gives me the advantage of working anywhere in the world, all I need is internet. So looking forward to start this adventure inspired by you guys, I’m planning go all the way down to Argentina.